what we believe
Rational Hedonism encourages taking personal responsibility for learning to control our emotions, thoughts, and actions. It discourages the misuse of victimhood or oppression as tools for manipulation or control. What some might call negatives, setbacks or failure, can also be turned around to build resilience and determination.
Rational Hedonism teaches us to balance life, cherishing individual pleasures, gratitude, and the wisdom of knowing when you have 'enough'. Since humans are naturally social creatures, Rational Hedonism values true, good friends (yes, even introverts). It encourages us to communicate with a sense of humor, respect diverse views, adaptability, and respect for the diverse views, rights and freedoms of law-abiding individuals.
Freedom of Speech
Freedom of speech is essential for individuals to make informed decisions on issues that affect their lives—including choosing leaders who will represent their needs and work toward a better future. Any education should include reading, writing, and the ability to the ability to read, write and rationally evaluate information from all sources. In a society where individual rights are protected, citizens must be vigilant in selecting representatives who will defend their freedoms and assets, rather than trying to take them away.
Intellectual honesty requires questioning even the opinions we agree with, just as much as those we oppose. Accepting censorship and silencing dissent without hearing and weighing the merits of opposing arguments sets a dangerous precedent. What begins with suppressing opinions we disagree with can ultimately lead to the suppression of our own voices, as well.
Personal Responsibility
Responsibility extends beyond what you say and do—it includes what you choose not to say or do. Do not blame others or the situations you create, whether in words, behavior, or inaction. Choices have consequences. Will what you want to say, do, or post online create anxiety, stress, harm, or will it align with your happiness and life goals?
Thoughtful action can lead to positive outcomes--in personal growth, relationships, or career pursuits. Avoidance and excuses can lead to stagnation, missed opportunities, or lingering regret over what could have been.
Growth comes from acknowledging mistakes, learning from them, and striving to improve—not making excuses or placing fault elsewhere.
Do not destroy property or take things that don't belong to you.
Destroying public or private property demeans one’s humanity—even animals do not destroy the environment they depend on.
Interfering with another person's happiness is no longer protest—it is crime, and crime must be prosecuted to discourage future lawlessness. If their cause was ever sincere, it is overshadowed by destruction, anger, irrational behavior and trying to cause fear and intimidation.
A very simple rule: If you didn't pay for it, it's not yours. Shoplifting, squatting, stealing belongings, pets, from homes, defacing personal or public property
The world doesn’t owe you anything. Avoid falling into the trap of entitlement for something that was never yours to begin with.
In the U.S., you are promised equal opportunity, not equal outcome.
If you really want something, pursue it with planning, study and intention--not because it's a status symbol or out of envy for what someone else has. Just because you see people with things you want, they have already been where you are now and have worked for it. You have no right to it. Being shot by the owner or put in jail will not make your life better. "Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle." – Jon Acuf
"Success" and "wants" mean different things to each of us, and the first step is defining what truly matters to you. Decide what things you really want and imagine where you see yourself in the future. At the same time, recognize the value of what you have now—there are things to appreciate and be grateful for.
Future success and fulfillment require personal effort, dedication, perseverance and merit. Through resilience, self-reflection, and the willingness to challenge your own thought processes, you cultivate the ability to grow, adapt, and craft the life and happiness that is uniquely yours.
Work Has Value
Even when employed by others, you ultimately work for yourself and towards own personal goals. True independence comes from earning your way, developing personal integrity, self-improvement and independence.
What is labeled as “free” is often deceptive—if you are receiving something without effort, you’ve likely given up something in return. Whether it’s control, choice, or ownership, nothing is truly free.
Set healthy boundaries between your rights and the rights of others.
Overindulgence and excess beyond your physical or financial limits is irrational.
Practicing moderation is wise, as excessive behaviors and desires can lead to negative physical, emotional, and financial consequences--without bringing you real happiness.
Your life is not predestined
With belief in self-determination, with effort and creativity, innovation and the drive to make changes, you do have the power to shape your own future and choose your own path. The mistakes you've made in your past should be used as an example of what didn't work, so move forward.
Cultivating a sense of gratitude
A sense of gratitude for what you do have, the food you eat, and the relationships that enrich your life can lead to a happier, more content life.
By consciously recognizing the good things in your daily life, you reinforce appreciation—and the more you notice them, you seem to have. Gratitude shifts perspective from what’s lacking to what’s abundant, bringing a deeper sense of contentment.
Peace and Safety
People cannot thrive in an atmosphere of fear--of where they go, what they say, or whether their homes and communities remain secure; crime, violence, muggings, theft, intruders in our homes, repeat offenders, or individuals with serious mental issues, all breed uncertainty, leaving workers, the elderly, children, and neighborhoods vulnerable.
A sense of safety is a prerequisite for the pursuit of happiness. Without it, freedom is meaningless, as people become anxious, worried for their family, and are forced to use their energy on daily survival instead of opportunity.
Elected officials who fail to evaluate evidence, refuse to adapt policies, while watching neighborhoods, businesses, and the dreams of children and adults to collapse, and must be replaced.
Leadership is accountable for ensuring stability, security, and prosperity—not for permitting lawlessness to spread unchecked.
Governments, political offices, and judicial systems exist to protect their people. When they fail to uphold safety and individual freedoms, they betray their most fundamental duty.

Frequently asked questions


"By pleasure we mean the absence of pain in the body and of trouble in the soul.
It is not an unbroken succession of drinking-bouts and of revelry, not sexual lust, not the enjoyment of the fish and other delicacies of a luxurious table, which produce a pleasant life;
it is sober reasoning, searching out the grounds of every choice and avoidance, and banishing those beliefs through which the greatest tumults take possession of the soul.
Of all this the beginning and the greatest good is wisdom. Therefore, wisdom is a more precious thing even than philosophy; from it spring all the other virtues, for it teaches that
we cannot live pleasantly without living wisely, honorably, and justly;
nor live wisely, honorably, and justly without living pleasantly.
For the virtues have grown into one with a pleasant life, and a pleasant life is inseparable from them." -- Epicurus